Any time we court a certain type of person, ruminate over an ethnicity, coddle a fetish over a hair color, ache for a body type, we can invest a lot of time, emotion and certainly fantasy into that person even if they do not have the qualities we imagine them having. The stronger a type someone is, the more we can place upon them, to the point they are the walking embodiment of our hopes and dreams by their very stature or the clothes they wear.
This is very true of the fantasies men and women coddle round the classic Bbw. Since the big beautiful girl is certainly a type all manner of fantasy can be attached to her if one happens to instantly marry a body type with a certain attitude or approach.
There are those of us who instantly attribute a submissive girly-girl quality to a Bbw simply because she is rounder then most women, doughy almost, soft and pliant to the touch. It’s many thin gay girls who will saddle up to a Bbw seeing her as not only their complete opposite body type but also maybe a woman who needs to be taken care of. Guys to take to the big girl they assume like to be pampered cared for and constantly managed and taken out to eat.
Yes, we can assume a lot from a body type and not all of it always true and some of it insulting.
Then there are the consort of Bbw’s who view the bigger girl as instantly tougher, a dom in fact. Many men have a aching for the classic Bbw who will sit on their face, whip them, top them as much with their weight as an attitude attributable, as often times faultily applied as any other.
We need to watch our assumptions when we find ourselves attracted to a type. We certainly can’t help who we are attracted to but at the same time we can reserve judgment and assumptions until we get to know each Bbw girl we encounter in a one on one basis.