Our culture seems somewhat schizophrenic at times. On the one hand, our media is full of images of the unrealistically skinny and we’re told this should be our desire — one of the perfect tight bodies one sees on the television. There’s nothing wrong with people whose bodies naturally form that way, but the reality is today more and more people are coming in a variety of different and larger shapes and sizes. The desire to meet and have an erotic connection with a bbw or big beautiful woman is a growing one today, but one that is often met with confusion.
It’s important to note that for many centuries or even longer, perhaps thousands of years, a well fed and ample woman was an ideal for us to desire as men. The famous Venus of Willendorf statue is a fertility totem which was found deep in some sacred caves used by ancient humans, and it depicts a woman with huge breasts and massive round hips, clearly the object of ancient bbw sex lust. For in times when food was sometimes scarce, what would be more worshipped than this ideal of plenty?
It’s no wonder that we still seek out these kinds of women for sex today if we allow ourselves to be truthful to our desires. Though athletically skinny women have their sensual delights, a starving waif is not the most comfortable bed partner and far inferior when it comes to post-fucking cuddle times.
Sometimes when people find a larger woman on a adult friend finder website and begin a connection with her they are ashamed of sharing her with their friends. But rather we say be proud of who you are with, and the fun bedroom delights you are no longer experiencing. If others don’t understand it is only because they have not experienced it for themselves or are afraid to admit their lusts.